(Transkribiert von Leliwatch.com) (0:00 - 1:02) This is why I had to bring it to social media. It's been brought to my attention that Lena has posted a video in response to what I shared about living with her. And I have this all written here because it's a lot to remember all the points I'm trying to make. So my intention with bringing it online isn't for revenge or an ego fight, I simply wanted to share how difficult financially and emotionally her behavior and disregard to her responsibilities has caused me. It had to be put on social media because she refused to discuss it with me. She blocked me when I asked her to pay her rent. She actually blocked me once she knew that I was going to take legal action against her for not paying her half of the rent. So this message was on March 2nd. As you can see, I'll be taking legal action against you. That delivered. If I'm not paid by whatever date, that delivered. And then I was blocked and this message did not send. (1:04 - 1:21) Blocking me does not mean it's going to go away, basically. My intention is not to hurt her, but to hold her accountable for that. She mentioned in her video, without even saying the word rent or addressing this issue, that she would be in a lawsuit right now if it was a thing. (1:22 - 3:13) As I said, I tried to make it aware to her that I would be taking legal action and I went above and beyond to try to take legal action, but because she doesn't have a stable address, it's hard to send her court papers. And then she went on to make her entire video about religion and sexuality when that was not the point of my video or the issue at hand. But if that's what needs to be addressed, they were never rumors. These were my living experiences with her. I want to make that very clear. They were my experiences with her. Her struggling with her sexuality is her own issue, not something I hold against her, but it became harmful to me when she started saying she was going to hell for being gay as an openly gay person for almost 10 years. That's extremely difficult to hear every day. I've never felt ashamed or unsafe or insecure about my sexuality until living with her. And I didn't know that this would be an issue living with her. She created this environment where I felt I could not be myself without thinking about how that might affect her. And this change in narrative that I'm an unhealthy person is not true because I sat with her every day for hours talking with her about her mental health and her sexuality and just trying to give her clarity and peace and make this her journey somewhat more breathable for her. That was my intention with being her friend was to just bring her some peace. I'm not an unhealthy person for sharing my living experience with her. And everything I've mentioned about her sexuality and religion is something that she's already spoken about online. (3:14 - 6:24) She's flipped the narrative in her video. She mentioned how it's crazy that people will believe anything on social media, yet she is actively changing the narrative and blocking and removing comments of people who are bringing up the rent situation and trying to hold her accountable. She said she just stays still when in reality she blocks and removes all the negative comments about her. I was also never eager or willing to go to church with her. I always said no when she asked. So at that point, it felt like she was crossing a boundary every time she asked or brought up religion. Comparatively, I never spoke about my sexuality unless Lena asked or brought up because that's just a boundary respect thing in my eyes. I was always willing to sit and talk with her about her sexuality. It's only now in hindsight that I've realized how detrimental that was to me and how much I was willing to put up with again without realizing how harmful it had become to me. I really just wanted to be a good friend to her and make her feel safe and comfortable and I feel like I did do so. I think if someone is not religious, that's something that should be respected, especially when someone is also gay at the same time. Someone who is gay does not want to hear someone else say that they're going to hell for being gay. It gets to a point where it's just a lot to endure every day. My intention, again, was to talk about my experiences, but ultimately this was about the rent. The narrative has now been twisted by Lena to make it about her sexuality and religion when again that was never an issue. I don't judge her for that. She's twisted the narrative so that she is not held accountable for what the real issue is. It's that she did not pay her half of the rent and she blocked me and left four more months of rent on me to deal with. My last video includes the entire story with the screenshots. Yeah, I also just want to include, in the video I said she would be effing me over if she put this all on me and she did. That's exactly what she did and then she proceeded to say that I'm a bad friend and this is not the type of friendship or communication she wants to have and that I throw people against the wall when they don't act the way I want them to, when in reality I just asked her to pay her half of the rent and I told her this is what you would be doing to me if you stop paying your rent. Yet she immediately played the victim about the situation. Immediately. So please don't go on Lena's account and judge her about her sexuality and her religious beliefs. That's her journey. This was my experience living with her. It's not judgment. It's not. It was just a lot as a gay person. It was a lot. However, the way she went about exploring her religion and her sexuality while living with me was harmful and inappropriate to me. (Transkribiert von Leliwatch.com)